Marriage, a sacred bond, can face trials that test the strength of love and commitment. For couples facing struggles, prayer becomes a powerful tool to invite God’s guidance and healing into their relationship.
These prayers are designed to help couples find restoration, deepen their faith, and rebuild their connection, even in challenging times.
Let these words be a source of spiritual renewal and strength as you journey toward a stronger, God-centered marriage.
30 Prayers for Struggling Marriage
1. Matthew 19:6
“So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
Heavenly Father, we ask for Your intervention in our marriage. Restore the unity and bond You created when You joined us together as one.
Help us to remember the sacredness of our vows and to seek reconciliation and understanding. Grant us the strength to resist division and the wisdom to work through our differences in love.
Lord, we trust in Your divine purpose for our marriage. Bind us together with Your love and grace, so we may stand against any forces that seek to separate us.
May we walk hand in hand, guided by Your light, toward a future filled with peace and mutual respect.
2. Ephesians 4:2-3
“With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”
Lord, teach us humility and patience as we navigate the difficulties in our relationship. Help us to treat each other with gentleness and to bear with each other’s weaknesses in love.
Father, help us to focus on what truly matters—loving and supporting one another as You have called us to do. Remind us daily of the power of forgiveness and the beauty of a bond strengthened by Your presence.
3. Colossians 3:13
“Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.”
Lord, we seek the ability to forgive one another wholeheartedly, just as You have forgiven us. Remove bitterness and resentment from our hearts, replacing them with understanding and compassion.
May forgiveness flow freely in our marriage, restoring the trust and joy that we once shared. Let us reflect Your grace in how we treat one another, building a foundation of love and respect.
4. Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
Father, we surrender our marriage to You, trusting in Your wisdom and guidance. When we face confusion and doubt, remind us to lean on You rather than our limited understanding.
Lord, we commit to acknowledging You in every aspect of our relationship. Teach us to trust Your plan and to walk in faith, knowing that You are working all things together for our good.
5. Psalm 34:18
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
Lord, we come to You with broken hearts, seeking Your comfort and healing. Be close to us in our pain and remind us that You are always near. Restore hope and joy to our marriage, even in the darkest moments.
May Your presence bring peace to our home and strength to our relationship. Help us to rely on You as our source of comfort and to trust in Your ability to mend what is broken.
6. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
Lord, remind us of the true nature of love as described in Your Word. Teach us to be patient and kind with one another, setting aside selfishness and pride. Help us to rejoice in truth and to bear all things together in faith.
May our love reflect the selfless, enduring love You have shown us. Guide us in building a marriage that honors You and brings joy to our hearts.
7. Galatians 6:9
“And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”
Father, give us the endurance to continue investing in our marriage, even when it feels difficult.
Remind us that our efforts to love and support one another are not in vain. Strengthen our resolve to persevere and trust in Your perfect timing.
Help us to remain faithful to the promises we made to each other and to You. May our commitment be a testimony of Your faithfulness and grace.
8. Philippians 4:13
“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”
Lord, we confess our need for Your strength to face the challenges in our marriage. On our own, we are weak, but through You, we can overcome any obstacle.
Empower us to love selflessly and to build a relationship that glorifies You.
May we find courage in Your promises and rely on Your strength to guide us through trials. With You as our foundation, nothing is impossible.
9. James 1:5
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.”
Father, we ask for Your wisdom as we navigate the complexities of our marriage. Show us how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and grow together in love.
Thank You for being a generous and loving God who provides for our needs. Help us to seek Your wisdom daily and to trust in Your direction for our relationship.
10. Isaiah 40:31
“But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”
Lord, renew our strength as we wait on You for healing and restoration in our marriage. Lift us above the challenges we face, giving us the perseverance to keep moving forward together. Fill our hearts with hope and encouragement.
May we draw closer to You as we trust in Your timing and plan for our marriage. Let Your strength sustain us and Your love inspire us to rebuild our relationship on a firm foundation.
11. Romans 12:12
“Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.”
Lord, help us to find hope in the midst of our struggles. Teach us to be patient during trials and to lean on You through constant prayer. Strengthen our faith and remind us that with You, all things are possible.
Father, fill our hearts with joy and perseverance. May Your presence guide us as we work toward healing our marriage, trusting in Your power to restore what feels broken.
12. Psalm 37:5
“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act.”
Heavenly Father, we commit our marriage to You. We trust in Your wisdom and plan, knowing that You will act in Your perfect time. Help us to remain steadfast in our faith as we navigate this difficult season together.
Lord, guide our steps and give us clarity in making decisions that honor You and our relationship. Let us surrender fully to Your will and trust in Your divine intervention.
13. 1 Peter 4:8
“Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.”
Lord, ignite in us a deep and earnest love for one another. Help us to overlook each other’s faults and extend forgiveness freely. May our love grow stronger as we rely on Your grace and mercy.
Teach us to love in a way that reflects Your love for us—selfless, forgiving, and enduring. Let this love be the foundation of the healing and restoration of our marriage.
14. Isaiah 41:10
“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
Lord, thank You for being our constant source of strength. When we feel weak and dismayed, remind us that You are with us. Uphold our marriage with Your righteousness and guide us toward reconciliation.
Let Your presence bring us courage and peace. May we find comfort in knowing that You are always by our side, helping us through every challenge.
15. Proverbs 15:1
“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
Father, teach us to respond to each other with kindness and understanding. Help us to speak words that promote healing rather than hurt. Let gentleness and love guide our conversations, even during moments of conflict.
Lord, transform our communication so that it reflects Your wisdom and peace. May our words build each other up and restore harmony in our relationship.
16. Hebrews 10:24
“And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works.”
Lord, inspire us to encourage one another in love and to be a source of support and motivation for each other. Help us to focus on the positive qualities in our relationship and to nurture them with care.
May our actions reflect a genuine desire to see each other thrive. Let us be a team, working together to build a marriage that honors You.
17. 2 Corinthians 12:9
“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
Lord, we acknowledge our weaknesses and invite Your power to work in our marriage. Let Your grace be sufficient for us as we navigate this season of struggle. Strengthen us through Your perfect power.
Father, help us to rely on You completely, knowing that our weaknesses are an opportunity for Your strength to shine. Be the source of our hope and restoration.
18. John 14:27
“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.”
Lord, fill our hearts and home with Your peace. Remove fear and anxiety from our minds, replacing them with trust in You. Let Your peace be a constant presence as we work to restore our marriage.
May Your peace guide our thoughts, actions, and interactions with one another. Help us to remain calm and focused on Your promises.
19. Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”
Lord, remind us that Your plans for our marriage are for good and not for harm. Help us to trust in the future You have prepared for us, even when the present feels uncertain. Let Your hope fill our hearts and renew our faith.
Father, guide us as we align our lives with Your purpose. May we find joy in the knowledge that You are working all things together for our good.
20. Malachi 2:16
“For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”
Lord, teach us to remain faithful to one another and to guard our hearts against bitterness and betrayal. Help us to honor the commitment we made before You and to work diligently to preserve our marriage.
May our actions reflect our love and respect for each other. Let us find strength in our faithfulness and renew our dedication to building a strong and lasting relationship.
21. Ecclesiastes 4:12
“And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
Lord, strengthen the bond between us and draw us closer to You, the third strand in our relationship. May our marriage be built on a strong foundation of faith, unity, and love, unshaken by challenges.
Help us to work together as a team, always seeking Your guidance. May our hearts be bound tightly in love and mutual respect, bringing strength to our union.
22. 1 John 4:18
“There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.”
Father, help us to love each other without fear or reservation. Let Your perfect love fill our hearts and our home, casting out any doubt, insecurity, or negativity.
May we find courage in Your love and extend that same fearless love to one another. Restore trust and confidence in our marriage, allowing us to grow together in unity.
23. 2 Timothy 1:7
“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”
Lord, grant us the strength and self-control to navigate the struggles we face. Replace fear with love and empower us with Your Spirit to build a marriage that reflects Your goodness.
Help us to overcome obstacles with grace and to support one another through every trial. May Your love be the foundation of our relationship.
24. Psalm 46:1
“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”
Father, we turn to You as our refuge in this time of need. Be our strength and ever-present help as we work to restore peace and harmony in our marriage.
Guide us with Your wisdom and provide us with the courage to face our struggles. May we find comfort in knowing that You are always with us.
25. 1 Thessalonians 5:11
“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.”
Lord, teach us to be sources of encouragement and support for one another. Help us to build each other up with words and actions that reflect Your love.
May our relationship be a testament to the power of encouragement and kindness. Let us always strive to bring out the best in each other.
26. Psalm 119:105
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
Father, let Your Word guide us through the challenges we face in our marriage. Illuminate our path with Your truth and give us the wisdom to make decisions that honor You.
Help us to seek Your guidance daily and to trust in Your promises. May Your Word be the cornerstone of our relationship.
27. Hebrews 13:4
“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”
Lord, help us to honor our marriage and remain faithful to one another. Strengthen our commitment and protect our relationship from any outside temptations or distractions.
May we always cherish the sacred bond we share and seek to glorify You through our actions and choices within our marriage.
28. Deuteronomy 31:6
“Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”
Lord, give us the courage and strength to face the challenges in our marriage without fear. Remind us that You are always with us, walking beside us every step of the way.
May we find reassurance in Your presence and trust in Your faithfulness. Strengthen our bond and help us to overcome our struggles together.
29. Song of Solomon 2:15
“Catch the foxes for us, the little foxes that spoil the vineyards, for our vineyards are in blossom.”
Father, help us to address the small issues in our marriage before they grow into larger problems. Grant us the wisdom to recognize and resolve these challenges with love and care.
May we protect and nurture the relationship You have blessed us with, allowing it to flourish and bring glory to Your name.
30. Zephaniah 3:17
“The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.”
Lord, remind us of Your presence in our marriage. Quiet our hearts with Your love and fill us with joy and hope. Reignite the love and happiness in our relationship.
May Your love be a source of comfort and strength as we work to rebuild and renew our marriage. Let us feel Your delight in our union.
Conclusion
Leaning on God promises and seeking his wisdom, couples can find strength to rebuild their bond and renew their commitment to one another.
May these prayers and scriptures serve as a source of light and encouragement, bringing restoration, peace, and a deeper connection with both God and your spouse.